Monday, November 5, 2012

"I'll probably let Elder Kulu punch it"



Hello everyone!
It always nice to write this email because it allows me to reflect on the week. This week was tough. It was very discouraging despite the successes that we were having. Victor decided he didn’t want to learn anymore about the church. But his brother Vincent is sooo golden. He was saying how he talks to himself about the gospel and that he ponders our lessons all the time and prays each morning and night and we didn’t even ask him too. Also we are working with a lot of less-actives. Like 8 or 9 families and I feel more like a babysitter or a parent. We go in there and ask if they read there scriptures gone to church and prayed. If they didn’t we chastise them lovingly and commit them again. And we find a way to remind them. And a lot just avoid/don’t open the door and just tell us to go away. it’s hard to give them a desire and to see all the blessings that they could have.

There was one family that I was fed up with because the dad was being a terrible example. The mom and the rest of the family want to come to church and to change but he doesn’t. I asked him if he will come to church and he said we will see. Well that is basically a no. We taught him the importance and recommitted. Same answer. He just wasn’t interested. I asked him why he doesn’t want to come to church. He said that he is tired of all the fake members and the stuff they do. He said that his bishops are thieves and stake presidents are terrible also. He gave some examples which I won’t repeat. But he also said that just because he smokes shouldn’t keep him from the temple. Obviously he doesn’t understand what commandments are. I straight up told him "why would anyone else stop you from your salvation?" he didn’t have an answer. He was just making up excuses. His kids were there so I asked him what he wants for his family. He said what he wanted and I told him how to get it. And I said that as the head of the household that his decisions will determine what he gets. That if he isn’t an example for his kids that God will hold him accountable for his actions because he knows that the church is true. The spirit was there don’t get me wrong we did it with all the love and charity we had for the family. We can’t give them a desire. They didn’t come to church the next morning.

With Floyd we set up a new quit day. He has had a hard life so we didn’t want to drop him because he needs the structure of the gospel. So today I am dropping off seeds to help him quit. Also he will be playing basketball with the stake so maybe that will help him.

James Deng didn’t come to church even though we saw him right before church and we went to pick him up. He knows the church is true but it’s hard to show him that church is soo important. But he wants this because he wants to teach it to his family and also he wants to take it to his country in Sudan so he wants to learn all he can so that he can teach other people. I wish we had a translator that spoke dinka. It would make it sooo much better.

But a tender mercy or a miracle... a family just moved into the 3rd ward here and they had a baby blessing. The grandfather blessed the baby and I was wondering why. So we got introduced to the father and he is an investigator!! The wife is active he is not. He has been humbled by his situation that he grew up in and we had a really powerful first lesson with him yesterday and we committed him to baptism. We always ask first lesson if they are qualified. We just have to get over smoking and but he wants to be baptized. I feel like everyone does some sort of drug here. There really are a lot of people that smoke here.

But this week was good. I bought a 28 pound pumpkin to carve. I got a deal on it. The cashier gave it to me for 10 cents a pound. But I didn’t have time to carve it so it’s just sitting in my room. I’ll probably let Elder Kulu (for you dad) punch it because he said he wanted to. But at a dinner appointment I did carve a smaller one so I’m happy.

We played rugby again. It’s a lot of fun. I’m thinking about playing when I get back! I have the right body type. haha So I guess I should tell you who is in my district. Elder Kulu is now district leader and my companion, we have elder Darquea old DL and elder Taylor Spanish speaking in our same stake and in another stake elder Medeiros and elder Lucio Spanish speaking. There are a lot of Hispanics here.

So I was really discouraged this week but in one of the many church times that we go too we stopped in at primary. I love it there. Anyways they sang Nephi’s courage and it just reminded me of all the stuff that Nephi went through and how I’m being such a pansy for being sad. I just need to go and do. That’s all I was called to do.

Oh and dad I’m not sure how many sisters; If I had to guess maybe 20 companionships. So a lot but soon it will be about as many as there are guys; which is super cool. And I’m glad to hear about parker. I didn’t know if he actually wanted to go. But now that he has made this decision I know he will love it! Good job Parker! Well I guess this week was good. We have 4 people on date this month and Elder Kulu and I are going to baptize all of them!!! It’s going to happen! We have been working hard! And I have faith that these people will be ready.

Love Elder Salmon

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